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Kit's avatar

Prof G. I think your own example and the Desmond/Mathilda scenario express exactly what I think. I have never been a joiner and choose not to be on social media, but that's OK for me, maybe not others. However, the current crisis in this milieu; trolling, badmouthing anonymously, support my position. What HCP would want to be subjected to this? You needed to hired legal help. Another HCP experienced sufficient stress to be off work for several months? Those who choose to attack anonymously on Twitter, Facebook and other platforms, appear to be very destructive and, worryingly, powerful enough to recruit their own constituencies. It's fine for me to eschew these platforms, but I'm well enough and robust enough not to need them. I also find plenty of online support via all the legitimate agencies concerned for pwMS; Barts, the MS Trust and Society and ShiftMS and OMS, though I don't follow the OMS life-style slavishly, reasonable though it is. It is also important to remember that groups can form that are malign despite seeming to be innocent enough initially. In other spheres we have seen the effects of online radicalisation, mysogyny and extreme political views. Their influence evolved subtly and sucked the naive and easily influenced in over time.

So there is a huge amount of bona fide MS advice online. The trick is to sort the wheat from the chaff. It must be tough if someone is lonely and desperate for information. The need to connect is a basic human one. If people are drawn to online groups they need to have positive experiences from them just as they do in face-to-face ones and the digital divide makes that tougher. Face-to-face can cause upsets just the same, but you know who is the problem. In the pandemic we have moved over to our computers, but that excludes the digital have-nots. It is a problem that will divide and upset in equal measure, but that's human nature I suppose .

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I have moderated a couple of peer to peer support groups online, including co-hosting an online MS women’s group. I remember the days of CCSVI and the heated exchanges on some forums. I had to keep a tight lid on that particular powder keg in terms of moderating comments on the forum where I was an administrator. In general, I have found most forums to be supportive but I think it depends on good moderators, keeping a close eye on information being exchanged and being quick to intervene and to signpost to evidence based information. I volunteered for 10 years for a Helpline for an MS charity I quickly learned how important accuracy is when supporting others

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