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Elizabeth Hannaby's avatar

My partner has a very unpleasant experience. Initially (20 year ago) he was getting constipation, had many problems and tried different treatments including movicol, but that did not work well for him. Someone in health food shop recommended magnesium which he started taking, this made a huge difference and he was fine for a number of years, went every night at the same time. Then he started getting the impaction and dealt with by 'digging for cold' as one of mother-in-law's carers called it :-). Now he does self- irrigation. The pattern is, he has a couple of days where the digging thing works. Then the next day it will be a 'bad one' where he gets loads of black sludge (from the iron tablets he has to take) - then he will irrigate to make sure he's clear. Perched on the toilet for nearly an hour. Left side is weak but he is still able to clean himself up. He's had various tests, I think his bowel muscles don't work properly because of the MS so they have weakened. Are there exercises for the bowel muscles??? Very helpful reading what other people are doing. I like the imodium/ducolax idea, but I don't think he would try that. A bidet would be nice! But they're too low, he wouldn't be able to get off it. Fabulous blog!

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Lynne's avatar

The biggest impact on my life with MS is my bowel! The problems began around the beginning of the century, 5 years after diagnosis in 1995, so I’ve been living with this and trying various things for over 20 years. You name a laxative and I’ve probably tried it! I started with the obvious, more fibre/water to no great effect. After 10 years a visit to a continence nurse convinced me that I needed laxatives. I monitored my fluid intake and discovered I was drinking 4 L of water daily and I was still constipated! Her suggestion was to use Movicol which to begin with was brilliant.

However after two weeks using daily I began to lose control of my bowel. I described my motions as cream cheese. It was unbearable, I couldn’t go out because I had lost all control. I went back to the continence nurse who told me I needed to balance the Movicol with Imodium. That apparently is what all ‘her’ ladies with MS do.

Telling someone who has been constipated for 10 years to use something that will bung them up seemed ridiculous to me so I went to see a GP. Together we came up with another option which was to use Docusate (brings water into the bowel)and Dulcolax (stimulator) in combination.

This worked to begin with however I started to get the diarrhoea effect again so I stopped using docusate and began to take one Dulcolax at night. This is still my routine to this day and 80% of the time it works.

In 2018 I went on a big trip to South Africa and I was worried about being constipated on that 3 1/2 week holiday. I didn’t need to worry because I discovered something, sitting in a car driving on bumpy gravel roads meant that I had no problems with my bowel. Since coming home I bought a vibrating pad off Facebook marketplace for eight quid and if I get constipated I sit on that for five minutes and it sorts me out!

I do still get occasional bouts of diarrhoea where I have urgency and need to be near at loo I’m beginning to learn the signals that this might be about to happen. What I have learnt is I probably only need six Dulcolax each week, so I miss out Sunday night.

Sorry for the long post…20 years worth of bowel trouble! One tip…get a bidet … mine is invaluable!

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