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Joanna Chadwick's avatar

It is my first Christmas as a single parent of two teenagers. I’m trying to make the best of it but I find it impossible to let people know I’m struggling. In the absence of invitations and people checking in with me, I’ve taken myself off to the gym to stop the mental spiral. I know that option isn’t available to everyone.

I’m not alone like some people but mentally I feel completely isolated from everyone else. I haven’t yet begun to process being by myself in the MS future, such as it is the great unknown.

Prof. I look forward to your updates. You can’t take the disease away from us but it means a lot to be validated.

Happy Christmas to you.

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Sarah's avatar

I'm the one spending Christmas alone this year. I came down with Covid a few days ago. I'm feeling fine but Christmas will be Day 6 and the friends who were coming for Christmas dinner are both clinically vulnerable. So we've rescheduled to New Year's Day.

I am really looking forward to getting outside again and I'm still planning to volunteer at parkrun. New Year's Day was going to be my 100th volunteering credit but it will have to be a couple of weeks later now as I had to miss parkrun yesterday and junior parkrun this morning.

Because I'm feeling fine I've been spending my time working on my core strength, with Pilates, yoga and a runners' conditioning programme. I'm annoyed this has interrupted my marathon training and can't wait to get back to it.

Friends have been good at checking on me and we already had a Boxing Day Zoom call in the calendar. My family is in New Zealand and I'll catch up with them tonight (Christmas morning there) and see the kids open their presents.

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